Fix critical data loss bugs and improve error handling

## Critical Fixes
- Fix CRITICAL-1: Empty scans no longer delete entire library
  - Use timestamp-based tombstone logic instead of path-based
  - Only mark missing if livePaths is not empty

- Fix CRITICAL-2: Re-scanned files now return from deleted state
  - Add deleted=false to SongsCompanion.insert in both scanners

## High Priority Fixes
- HIGH-1: Fix SQLite variable limit crash on large libraries
  - Replace isNotIn() with timestamp comparison (O(1) not O(n))

- HIGH-2: Fix UI freezing during scan
  - Throttle progress updates (every 50 files or end of scan)

- HIGH-3: Add error handling for scan failures
  - Wrap scanFolders/scanAndroidMediaStore in try/catch
  - Display scanError banner in LibraryScreen

- HIGH-4: Add error handling for playback failures
  - Wrap loadPlaylist in try/catch

## Medium Priority Fixes
- MEDIUM-1: Replace ! with ?? to handle unknown ProcessingState
- MEDIUM-2: Escape LIKE wildcards in search queries
- MEDIUM-4: Display StreamBuilder errors instead of treating as empty
- MEDIUM-8: Add tooltips to all IconButtons for accessibility
- Add doc comments to public database APIs

## Testing
- Add regression tests for CRITICAL-1 and CRITICAL-2
- All 9 existing tests pass

Co-Authored-By: Claude Haiku 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

lib/player/mini_player.dart

@@ -56,6 +56,7 @@ class MiniPlayer extends StatelessWidget {
                     builder: (context, snap) {
                       final playing = snap.data?.playing ?? false;
                       return IconButton(
+                        tooltip: playing ? 'Pause' : 'Abspielen',
                         icon: Icon(playing ? Icons.pause : Icons.play_arrow),
                         onPressed: playing ? handler.pause : handler.play,
                       );